“Pain is inevitable, suffering is optional.”

This is a famous quote you have heard which has often been incorrectly attributed.  The hard truth is suffering is mandatory if you plan serious things or events. There is a lot written on wedding catering, reception, wedding ceremony and planning but not about the wedding planning- suffering. Or should I say learning the value of suffering during a planning process.

If you want your wedding to be a successful event and get the best results on your wedding plans, you’re going to have to suffer. You have to go against your invoice and break the obstacles that stops or holds your wedding plans, Stay in a routine which you’re comfortable and play it safe.

Do you have to suffer every single moment? Absolutely not. There will be certain period where the thing may go wrong and mistakes would occur. To get the best of your wedding plan which you have never done before is somewhere between uncomfortable and downright painful. But you must be focused on your plans so that your end result will always be fruitful.

The problems and pains which you’re facing during the wedding planning process are short term but the end result will be as sweet as a honey. Most couples get lost with their wedding ideas and plans when they face the obstacles or a problem which makes their wedding incomplete. To plan a complete wedding you must get through the suffering phases during your plans.

There is suffering in the last line of the marathon, but the sense of triumph at the finish line makes it worthwhile.  In this instant gratification society, we need to remember planning a wedding is marathon, not a sprint. There will be sufferings at various mile phases of your plans but you need to remember that suffering makes you stronger.

To plan a successful wedding you need to do the things right. You may hate the minutes of planning when you can’t locate the perfect vendor or locations and many more, but if you keep calm and have a cool head, and then the thing will be fine in your wedding. You will experience the hard work you have put-in during the planning process in your wedding

About the author: Iwedplanner is the new wedding planning website which guides the couples on how to plan a perfect wedding. Iwedplanner has developed wedding planning apps for the couples to plan a hectic free wedding, which helps them to locate the various wedding vendors and few wedding planning tools to help them in planning an absolutely perfect wedding.